Attorneys Stephen Korshak and Lee Karina Dani

How to disown your child

On Behalf of | Jun 24, 2026 | Estate Planning |

Cutting ties with a child is a difficult decision. If the conflict is too much, you may be thinking of legally disowning your son or daughter for the good of the family.

In Florida, simply walking away isn’t enough because an estranged child can still have a right to your property by default. Understanding how the regulations work is crucial if you want to protect your assets and get peace of mind.

Disowning minor and adult children

Legally, you cannot simply choose to disown a child under the age of 18. Parents have a strict legal duty to provide financial support and care. The state will not let you give up your parental rights unless another adult steps forward to legally adopt the child.

Once a child turns 18, the legal situation changes completely. Adult children have no legal right to your financial support. You can cut off all communication, stop funding their lifestyle and remove them from your life without any legal consequences. You do not need a court order to stop supporting an adult child.

Disinheriting children in Florida

Cutting ties is simple, but protecting your estate requires specific legal steps. If you want to ensure a child receives nothing after you pass away, you must state it clearly in your estate plan.

Moreover, you cannot just leave a child’s name out of your will. It is wiser to state in writing that you are intentionally leaving them nothing. If you do not, they may argue in court that your omission was a mistake.

Updating your life insurance policies, retirement accounts and bank accounts is also important. These assets go directly to whoever is listed on the account, bypassing your will entirely.

Understanding your obligations and parental rights

Intense family conflict means it is essential to set healthy personal boundaries for your own well-being. However, state law is very strict about parental duties, so you cannot ignore your legal obligations if your child is still a minor. Knowing exactly where the law draws the line allows you to protect your personal space while still meeting your responsibilities.

The information contained in this blog post is for general information only and should not be taken as legal advice. No attorney-client relationship has been formed by you reading this blog post. You must first retain our firm and we must acknowledge that you have hired us before an attorney-client relationship is formed.